One more about Heather D Aoust

One thing that I really feel strongly about is, if the mother IS charged, the father should receive the SAME CHARGES!

Heather D’Aoust is suspected of having murdered her mother.

The article stated the parents were loving and attentive…sometimes people become distracted.

Trying a child as an adult is an admission that the state has given up on this child.

Never, though, do I think I could forget my baby in a car!

Most parents offer them a huge array of activities to take part in.

Of course, I am assuming that each of the parents thought the other one was taking care of it, which seems to be the case here.

I did not learn of my Birthmothers mental illness till 37 yrs later due to non id,I found out my natural grandmother died of a skin disease which my sister has now called sarcodios,there is no cure for it and she can die,I also found out about my other siblings.

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Sometimes being a parent is hectic…I would have noticed my baby missing right away, obviously the parents in the article didn’t.

Had they BOTH thought differently, the child could have been sparred this injury through duel concern for the welfare of their children.

This occurs several times each summer in the Phoenix area, and it seems that it depends upon what neighborhood the family lives in if charges are brought or not.

In fact, every parent I know has had some situation where their child was breifly “misplaced”.

I know your close to the family but I truely believe heather needs to remain where she is because mental illness help in adult jails are not effective,heather should be given a chance to recieve proper help, be able to one day lead a productive life,her father said it best”shes not evil” shes ill, she needs help.

My Name Is Joanne.I am writting you on behalf of milliaons of adoptees including myself.

I’m not saying”what Heather did was right”I am saying give her a chance, locked up in a jail is so wrong, there is other ways of handling this case, adult jail and mental illness do not go hand and hand, i have read cases that the help there is not effective and no place for a young teenager.I believe she should be tried as a child, face five yrs in juvi with an option to have probation/house arrest and counseling.It is unheard of in any state that where the child and or teen are not taken into consideration.heather I believe never ment to hurt her mother,I believe she never relized what she did until afterwards,I believe she loved her parents and never would of hurt anyone.

I know that I, myself, have been guilty of getting distracted when my son was very young and forgetting him in the family room while I did other chores around the house.

It is this area of the brain that inhibits behavior that may be inappropriate: it’s the area of your brain that stops and makes you think before you do something reckless.

At this age, the potential for change is massive.

When my first daughter was born, I have to say that I laughed that I had ever even thought this could happen.

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My bm had ten or more kids, she dumped them,my older sis in a box at a week old, left some of us in hospitals and walked away, she suffered mental illness bad, i didn’t find out for 37 yrs,If my bm had been in teh right stae of mind, she would of never of doen it, with no mental help back then she not only suffered but also probley died,I have forgiven her.

Her nick name for Becky was the “vulture”.

Also, the night before, Heather and her parents went to a movie and when one of the other daughters came home, heather and her parents were sitting by the fireplace playing a game.

I have spoken to her lawyer whos a very nice man an dknows I understand most when it comes to adoptees and mental illness.I am not saying”what ehather did was right” it was wrong, way wrong, hwoever because i am ana doptee i have to say this please don’t take it wrong either.

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Now the mother, who is from Russia, is threatening to take him back to Russia with her, so that he will never ever see his father again.

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To JoanneI understand your your views on the sitation and I understand why you are saying what you wrote.

I plead with you take heathers condition into view, relize it wasn’t her fault that mental illness which she can’t control but will someday was in her way that awful day and she honestly in my heart never ment harm to her mother.I beg of you to look at adoption in a new light and relize it’s not all the adoptees fault but the agencies as well and they should also be punished for withholding information from adoptive parents.